Gart Urban, Brevard County, Volunteer of the Year 2004 I am …an ambassador
a charmer
a fighter
a messenger
When joining the Brevard County program in January, 2004, Gart first volunteered for a patient who was unhappy in his assisted living facility. He helped the patient move to another local facility by first investigating other places, then assisting with the actual move. In addition to his terminal condition, the patient had other physical ailments. Gart took him to doctor appointments and ran his errands. He made long distance phone calls at his own expense to the patient’s loved ones in South Florida to keep them abreast of his condition. Whatever was needed, he did.
Gart eventually moved on to the other patients. Born in Germany, Gart still has a European way about him which seems to help make his female patients feel special. When visiting his patients, he brings a small gift, like a donut, chocolate or flowers. He knows just what will prompt that special sparkle in their eyes!
Gart recently visited a patient who lived in an assisted living facility. At first, she was quiet and would have little to do with him … but eventually looked forward to his visits. Gart even had his musically talented children visit this patient and give a concert. His daughter played the violin and his son sang songs. The patient loved her special show. After the patient died, Gart talked about how powerful an experience it was for him to be a part of her life as well as her death.
Gart, 78, is the only VITAS Volunteer who visits patients on Saturdays and Sundays. He recently stayed with one patient a full day so his family could attend a wedding.
Gart recently expanded his role of VITAS Volunteer to VITAS ambassador. When he recently had his car serviced, he sat next to a gentleman while they both waited. Gart started a conversation about VITAS and encouraged him to consider volunteering. Gart got the man’s business card and immediately brought it to Marilyn Cromer, Brevard’s Volunteer Services Manager. The man is now a VITAS Volunteer.
Though once an industrial designer, Gart suffered neurological damage 10 years ago and as a result, cannot write well enough to complete his volunteer notes. That hasn’t stopped him, though. He learned to type his notes on a computer…and though he remains under a physician’s care, his spirit is upbeat and compassionate and the love in his heart for VITAS patients is incredibly unique and wonderful to behold.
“Gart epitomizes the VITAS Values and is loved and respected by patients, families and staff,” said Marilyn. “I know he will continue to be a VITAS Volunteer for as long as he is physically able. Hospice is his mission in life.”
Victor
Page, San Gabriel, Volunteer of the Year 2003
One year ago, a hospice patient and his wife needed emotional
support. After speaking with the inpatient care team, the couple
agreed to meet Victor, a new VITAS Volunteer.
“From the first day, I knew that Victor had the right
compassion, drive and dedication to improve another’s quality
of life,” said the team nurse. “Victor’s warmth
and sincere joy in being with this patient seemed to be the answer
for this couple.”
The patient’s wife agrees. “Vic was introduced to
us a companion … today we call him our friend,” she
said. “Each time he visits, he greets me with a hug and
takes time to ask about our children, remembering them all by
name. He’s great at making me feel normal for the moment.
But the most impressive quality about Vic is that my husband’s
interests have become his.”
In the patient’s chart, Victor notes his final visit with
the husband:
My patient was sleeping soundly when I arrived. I tried
waking him by softly stroking his right hand. He did not awaken.
I just sat there with him, occasionally stroking the back of
his hand. This is the first visit that my patient did not wake
up. I just stayed with him for 30 minutes, then called his
wife to let her know everything was alright.
Victor is a hospice advocate and the greatest example of a VITAS
Volunteer.
Barbara
Rowin, Central Florida, Volunteer of the Year 2002
With more than 3,000 accumulated hours as a VITAS
volunteer, Barbara has been advocating for and making a difference
in the lives of her patients and families in Central Florida for
more than four years.
With a resilient heart and calling for bereavement care, she reaches
out into the community as a representative of VITAS.
Having suffered the loss of two people dear to her, Barbara applies
her personal experiences when consoling others. “Barbara knows
what people need to heal from their losses,” said Linn Wheeler,
Central Florida’s Volunteer Manager. “She provides a
comfort that is soothing, calming, like that of no other.”
Each month, Barbara organizes emotional and social support groups
for those in mourning. She makes calls to prospective attendees
and then thoughtfully plans the gatherings to be held at participants’
favorite restaurants. Over the phone and at these support dinners,
she makes everyone feel important by listening with a loving heart
to their personal stories of pain and growth.
Barbara also coordinates pot luck dinners in which family members
make memorable dishes and reminisce about their loved ones. “Barbara’s
dedication to her patients and families surpasses any expectation
VITAS could ask of her,” said Linn.
“Barbara is always upbeat and positive, bringing joy to each
event she participates in. She is a devoted mother, a loving grandmother,
and an exceptional volunteer who truly cares for those she serves.”
Thank you, Barbara, for your love, dedication and loyalty to VITAS
and its patients and families. You are a godsend to everyone around
you!
John
Smith, Cincinnati, Volunteer of the Year 2001
John has exhibited the value “Patients and families come
first’’ numerous times. John is very dedicated and spends
as much time as he can with his patients, providing companionship
and support. On many occasions, John has been available on short
notice to help the teams. On one occasion, the program’s volunteer
manager asked if he was available to accompany a patient to a doctor’s
appointment. John was supposed to leave for vacation that day but
postponed his trip. He casually told the volunteer manager, “It’s
all right, I wasn’t planning to leave until later any way. The
patient is more important.”
Another time, the brother of a very sick patient died. The two brothers
had been inseparable throughout their lives, even as roommates in
a long term care facility. Sensing this patient’s emotional
pain, John spent five hours of his time escorting the patient by
ambulance to his brother’s funeral. One of John’s co-workers
said, “I believe there is no greater gift to be given in this
desperate moment of need. Thank you, John, for your compassionate
support.”
Thanks to John’s commitment, he offers patients and families
needed support on a daily basis. His willingness, warmth, flexibility
and generosity make John the ideal Volunteer of the Year. Thank
you, John, for all you do for VITAS’ patients and families.
Richard Wolf Volunteer of Year 2000, Chicagoland Northwest
Richard has been an exemplary volunteer with VITAS since the doors of the Chicagoland office opened. "Patients and families come first" is not only VITAS' number one value, it's also Richard's life value. He is at the inpatient unit five days a week and makes sure that he visits every patient. Richard takes a sincere interest in each of his patients, getting to know their interests, background and life experiences. He has been known to buy inspirational books for family members and children. Richard is also a wonderful public representative for hospice, advocating his beliefs wherever he can - in community meetings, newspapers, restaurants, even in a TV commercial.
Recently, the National Prime Time Awards Program, a premier older worker recognition initiative sponsored by Green Thumb, selected Richard as Illinois' most outstanding older worker and Prime Time Award recipient for 2001. Richard was recognized for exemplifying a positive work ethic, and for the valuable contributions he's made to his community and places of work.
When someone says the name Richard Wolf, you instantly think “hospice.” Richard is adored by his patients, families and staff. They are quoted as saying: "Who knew that this wonderful man would make such a difference in the lives of so many. Richard has many special gifts."