“WHEN
YOU TRULY
LOVE BEING A
HOSPICE WORKER
THE WAY
I DO, BEING
COMPASSIONATE
AND GOING OUT
OF YOUR WAY FOR
A PATIENT OR
FAMILY JUST MAKES
YOUR JOB MORE
FULFILLING.”
—Patricia Hamilton, LPN |
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In
the early morning hours, it was evident that John, a 97-year-old Broward
nursing home resident, had come increasingly close to death.
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“Get
some rest,” Patricia Hamilton, Broward LPN, said to Katherine,
John’s beloved wife of 41 years. Katherine, who in all these years
had never lived apart from John, also was a resident at the facility
and slept in the bed next to him.
“I’ll wake you if there are any changes in his
condition,” Patricia said in a caring, motherly way.
Katherine wanted nothing more than to be by John’s
side during his final moments … to say, “I love you”
and give him one final kiss and hug goodbye.
A compassionate soul, Patricia agreed to stay with
the couple through the night to monitor John’s
condition. As the sun rose, Patricia knew there was
little time for last-minute kisses and woke Katherine
as she had requested.
Katherine’s own disability, however, prevented her
from walking to John’s bedside. But at this early
morning hour, there was no wheelchair handy.
Patricia rushed to rally assistance from nursing
home staff, but returned to the room alone—
prepared to carry Katherine to John herself.
Moments later, staff arrived to assist. Katherine
was moved close to John and managed to
caress and hold the love of her life one last
time.
Days later, at John’s memorial service, Katherine
shared with loved ones how Patricia’s gesture
made a difference in her last memories of John.
“Advocating for the terminally ill is just one great
reason to work at VITAS… providing choices,
improving quality of life and performing
exceptional acts of kindness, the value of which
cannot be measured,” said Patricia.
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