Angelica
was a normal 11-year-old Colombian girl. Pink was her favorite color.
Tweetie Bird was her favorite cartoon hero. Abuela’s (grandmother’s)
home-made chicken soup was her favorite food. She loved to dance to
Salsa music. And she adored dogs and dreamed of becoming a veterinarian
one day.
Angelica’s youth and dreams sadly were cut short on her
twelfth birthday when she was diagnosed with cancer. Her parents moved
the family from Colombia to Houston, where Angelica could receive
quality care from a top cancer center at the University of Texas.
Against all odds, there was hope that cancer treatments would give
Angelica the opportunity to dance, to sing, to smile—to live again.
To everyone’s dismay, however, the cancer spread and Angelica’s
health worsened.
After a courageous year-long battle against cancer, the family agreed to
meet with
Dr. John Lerma, MD, Medical Director for VITAS’ Houston program,
and Martie
Carney, VITAS Inpatient Unit Team Manager at Park Plaza. Angelica was
admitted that day to VITAS’ Park Plaza inpatient unit.
Anticipating her arrival, the staff decorated Angelica’s room with
pink balloons
and Tweety Bird sheets. They also arranged for a VITAS pet therapy dog
to greet
her at the door.
From the start, VITAS staff cared for Angelica like a family member. Friendships
developed and the staff spent countless hours at Angelica’s bedside.
“Because Angelica was so young, even our team had difficulty
accepting her condition. I felt a lot of pain and sadness,” said
Dr.
Lerma, who has a 13-year-old daughter of his own. “How do you
really say good-bye to a child?”
Richard Paire, a VITAS inpatient RN at Park Plaza, knows. He
recently experienced the loss of his own daughter and could relate
to the despair Angelica’s parents were feeling. He spent time
consoling them through their pain and fears.
Other inpatient nurses took Angelica’s two young sisters under their
wings—playing games and offering food, friendly conversation and
hugs. Aracely
Neely, Houston Bereavement Manager, speaks Spanish and assisted in translating
funeral arrangements. At any hour, Nehiel Rojas, VITAS Team Chaplain,
could be
seen praying with the family and providing psychosocial support.
Hours before she died, Angelica asked for one last helping of Abuela’s
home-made
chicken soup, and to be remembered as a “niña linda.” She
said,
“ …please remember me as a beautiful girl.”
Indeed, Angelica, your family and VITAS caregivers do remember. With a
smile
that brightened every room, you filled the lives of those who knew you
with
warmth, laughter and love.
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